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When Is The Right Time To Say “I Love you”?

Opening up to someone you care about can be a bit tricky. Most time, we may lost track of ourselves or pretend to be someone’s else, just to find the right words and the right moment to share our feelings.

Love is not just about the physical attraction or the connections that can be felt and seen. When you love someone,your emotional make up and personality becomes one, you can easily see through your partner’s eyes, you laugh easily with your partner, find him/her a good companion and be eager to spend the rest of your life with him/her.

People often say things they don’t mean especially when they are in need of something. It’s very rude to tell someone you love him/her because you just want to have sex. And it’s important to note that love is beyond sex.

Not everyone you meet was meant to be your life partner, life let your part cross for a reason, so before you say I love you, make sure:

1. You are not asking for sex.
2. You are not saying it because of loneliness.
3. You are not saying it out of fear.
4. You are not saying it due to infatuation.
5. You are not saying it for materials benefit.

“I love you” in a relationship Means am ready to be with you, I will die for you, you are my life, you are my everything, without you there is no me. Once you have this kind of thinking about your partner don’t wait too long, just say it.

Written by Abel Udoekene

Abel Udoekene jnr is a fisherman by day, a blogger by night, a Social Media strategist, Writer, Children Ambassador, COO at Inspiration Africa.

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