How To Find The Right Person

“How do I find the right person?” Most time we come across question like this and sometimes we are even tempted to ask such questions ourselves.
We sometimes feel alone and rejected and as such we desire someone to fill in the vacuum.

The number one reason most people look for the right person is to find love, compassion and someone that will make them happy.
But there is a big question that demands urgent answer when you are trying to ask the question “is he or she the right person for me?” you should ask yourself first “Am I being the right person?”

An honest answer will be good for your relationship. If you fall into the trap of believing that no one is right for you when you have not even studied yourself, you will end up being very lonely and sad.

Being the right person doesn’t mean that you have to abandon yourself to please someone else. And it doesn’t mean that you have to make compromise that will hurt you in the long run. Being the right person means that you have to love yourself enough and be willing to love and appreciate another person.

Dating as we know can be both exciting and also demoralizing. From your first date, it is good to be a little secretive, but after you have seen that you can go along with your partner, you need to tell him/her your needs, if you don’t let him/her know your need, there is no point complaining when your needs are not met.

Of course you need to give him/her the chance before drawing the conclusion whether the person is right or wrong.

Don’t worry about your partner, work on being the best version of yourself and you will enjoy the rest of your life.

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Written by Abel Udoekene

Abel Udoekene jnr is a fisherman by day, a blogger by night, a Social Media strategist, Writer, Children Ambassador, COO at Inspiration Africa.


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