Abel Abel

If I Must Marry Then It Must Be For This Reason…

I have used N5000 a full month and was contented. I spent the money wisely..
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I have used N5000 a month for 3years and I didn’t have reasons to beg even though there were times I was so desperate to beg.
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I have good female friends, sometimes, they sponsor my breakfast and at other times, I sponsor theirs.
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If I don’t mention to you that I get N5000 as a monthly allowance, you will NEVER believe.
Lmao!
That’s how I am.
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Even with the N5000, I still borrow friends. pacman emoticon pacman emoticon and I must safe N1000 every month.
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Then somehow, it increased to N8000. Happy me! smile emoticon
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And somehow it has increased smile emoticon (praaaaaise the Lord)
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Anyways, money is good. Very good.
When you have money, you live large and fine.
Money makes things happen.
This I’ve seen in people’s lives.
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But if I were made to choose between,
1. Love
2. Sex
3. Money
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I’d go for Love!
Love is very important to me.
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In this life, I don’t think I’d ever marry for money. Except of course, I love the man, money is an extra bonus.
I don’t intend suffering or living from hand to mouth, so I’m working, trying to start up a gooooOod business.
But regardless, I must marry for love.
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No! I won’t marry a man that I don’t love but who loves me. I’d die before my time.
If I must marry a man, if marriage ever crosses my mind, which will be in 6years time, I’m looking at when I will be 40years old, whoever I will marry, I must be in love with him.
I don’t really care about money.
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Money, in my opinion is not happiness.
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If there’s one thing I really want to learn from some people is how they date or marry someone they do not love.
How do you cope brothers and sisters in the Lord?
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Don’t you get irritated?
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Money is good but you just can’t tempt me with money.
If it’s love?
Oh! I’d be your personal fool. Just try me!
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I built a wall to avoid loving people, knowing that if I do, I become their fool. I become their mumu. And trust me, being a mumu and fool in love is the ‪#‎bestest‬ feeling. colonthree emoticon
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Psychologists in America say that the life span of a woman will be cut short if she’s not constantly touched by somebody that she loves.
Watch a happy married woman or a happy single woman or a happy dating woman, watch how she does things if she’s happy in her relationship/marriage, how her skin glows and how her hair shines. Watch how she smiles.
You don’t get to see these things or the little happy and glowing details if she’s frustrated and broken hearted.
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Even with all the money in the world, a woman secretly loves to be touched or loved by a man or even a woman.
This is why most women who are being showered with money, yearn for a man in the shadows that will touch and sing sweet nothings to her.
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When a married woman cheat, apart from sex being the end result, a huge percentage of them do so because their husband stopped paying them attention and showing them love.
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I’m not saying money is bad. Or shouldn’t be your criteria for wanting to get married to that man. By all means, make your choice. For me, I can’t and won’t .
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I will be contented with a certain amount of money.
I must not be a billionaire but let me be loved.
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I want to be loved so deeply. Money can buy me clothes, cars, the most expensive hair extensions, jewelry, vacations etc but love? Oh! Just give me love and I will be at your mercy.
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Love over money any day anytime, even if you wake me up by past 2am to ask me that, I will choose LOVE heart emoticon
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