Last week Sunday i went out, and behold a married man that i knew very well with 3 kids, was with this young pretty lady eating, drinking and having fun together………. While his wife was all alone at home..
Please ladies be warned, there are no positive reasons to date a married man.
Have come to realize some reasons why some ladies involve themselves with married men, they are rich compared to their broke boyfriend. And according to some ladies, married men are more caring, for they know how to take care of them and always be there for them.
They have security and connection through this men, But ask yourself if its really worth it, losing your pride and dignity for something so lowly and vain. A woman with even an ounce of pride would NEVER share someone else’s husband.
If you find yourself on the brink of temptation, look at these 5 truths before you leap:
1* IT IS SO WRONG. Of all the reasons not to get involved with a married man, the primary one has to be this: it’s just plain wrong. Both a married man and his girlfriend can come up with all sorts of reasons to justify what they are doing, that his wife doesn’t treat him right and so on.
Those are just excuses but cheating is never right, and a person with dignity just wouldn’t be part of it. Getting involved with a married man is so wrong.
2* HE MIGHT NOT BE WHO YOU THINK HE IS: We hear stories about how some girls were used for ritual sacrifice, it isn’t a day that the act is perpetuated, the married man could have kept stuffing the girl with money and food, like a broiler waiting for the day he will slaughter her for money ritual. But ofcos he wouldn’t use his wife.
3* YOU WILL ALWAYS BE HIS LITTLE SECRET: No one can know about you, Not family, not respectable friends, you can’t go out with him in public because you just might get caught either by his family or yours, plain and simple, he doesn’t want anybody to know about you for the fear of making himself look bad.
4* LOYALTY IS NOT ONE OF HIS STRONG POINTS. Obviously, If he can cheat on her (his wife), he would do it to you. He made a vow when he married her and he clearly couldn’t follow through with it. What would make you think you are any different than her? Infact your stand is even worse for you have no legal backing. Im sure you do know all this ? Yes? And lastly.
5* TIME IS TOO PRECIOUS TO WASTE: Ever notice how quickly the years go as you get older? And no matter how you try you will look older, especially since you are dating an older man, fact. Because it’s convenient and comfortable, a relationship with a married man can go on for a long time, it will therefore prevent you from having a very strong relationship that will lead to marriage.
Please ladies beware, avoid married men, stop dating a married man, do to others what you would want them to do to you. Im sure you won’t allow it, you won’t tolerate such in your marriage so why you doing it to someone else?
A word is enough for the wise, there are alot of single guys out there who’s not married yet. Go for them and not for the married men…………..
Odinaka Des Matthew