15 People Reveal What It Is Like to Wait for Sex Until Marriage

To get to the bottom of what it’s really like to put off sex until you settle down and get married (a lot of tension and making out is my guess), a recent Ask Reddit thread posed just that question. Based on the fact that there are more than 1,800 comments on the thread, I’d say waiting until marriage isn’t as rare as I thought? Who knew.

1. “My friend and his wife waited until their marriage to get down. They planned on waiting a few years to have kids. A month later the pregnancy announcement hit Facebook. When I asked him what happened he said, ‘My pull out game is not strong.'” —CoolRunner

2. “Soon to be divorced, we probably rushed into marriage.” —AWSMtrumpetplayer3

3. “Genuinely fantastic. We’ve been married eight years and we still fuck three to four times a week and it’s really, really good.” —chilly-wonks

4. “Relationship is awesome. Sitting at the hospital right now with our first born.” —malevolentous

5. “SO much butt stuff. She figured it was the best loophole in existence. We’re great.” —TheMasterpass

6. “Nine years here. I think we still have sex almost every day, except when he thinks I’m mad at him. We are still best friends and he just gets better-looking every year. My favorite person. We have four kids, 7, 6, 4 and 2. He’s a great dad. A great husband. Wonderful provider. I could not have found a better man for me. We argue, disagree here and there, have to learn to talk to each other sometimes because we do feel like the other person is literally a part of us, so we don’t always realize something one of us likes is not something both of us like. It’s a process I plan to do until one of us dies.” —joybles

7. “We’re still learning what to do with the cum once it comes out.” —holidayshoplifter

8. “Next year will be our 21st anniversary. No complaints at all. Love my wife and have 3 wonderful kids. I would not have done it any other way, was just how I was brought up.” —wildhermit

9. “Doing great, in fact tomorrow is 11 years strong.” —violentcalm

10. “Things are great in our marriage. We were both virgins when we got married and we have enjoyed our sexual relationship a lot over the last 11 years. More than just the waiting, our ability to respect each other, work together toward common goals, and communicate clearly and kindly has helped us.” —HomeFires

11. “Our relationship is pretty amazing. Even though we saved it for marriage, we were both plenty educated on the mechanics of everything, and neither of us had any weird hang-ups or fears about it. From my perspective, sex is a really personal, spiritual thing and I’m so glad that we’ve only shared that part of ourselves with each other.” —mtdna_array

12. “IT’S FINE, EVERYTHING’S JUST FINE. STOP ASKING.” —penistakesthewheel

13. “It’s great. I was 29 when we got married. Never regretted waiting for a second.” —GreatTragedy

14. “Divorced.” —6553321

15. “Wonderful. Two beautiful baby boys later and we’re going strong.” —trogdor259

Written by By Hannah Smothers

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