Men Are The Cause Of Many Problems In This World…

I will tell you why.
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So a friend of mine, let me call him #Derik.
Derik and I had this client to meet up with and on our way, he saw this girl.
He took permission from me to go talk to her.
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He just said hello to her. Asked of her name,( let me call her Abigail) and her phone number.
She refused to give him. So he gave her his number and begged her to call him back. This happened around September last year.
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Still last year, still September, but the following week. Derik was walking alone and he saw another girl. The sandals she wore spoilt, as a good guy, he gave her his own sandals to walk with. Then bare footed, he followed her to her house.
He met her mom, greeted her and left.
He didn’t ask of her phone number.
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It happened that, they met again. Her name is Constance.
She actually took him to an eatery, they talked and left.
He asked her to date him, she accepted.
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So one of those days, he went to her house to meet her and saw Abigail. The girl he met the day he was with me.
Abigail is Constance’s elder sister.
Wow!
Interesting.
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So Constance did introduction and Derik told her he knows her sister. They’d met before.
Ok cool!
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When he left, Abigail now remembered to call him.
Abigail told him, she actually forgot she had his number. Said he was looking fine. Different from how he looked when they met.
Cool story.
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She started disturbing with calls. Sending text messages, love texts, good morning texts, happy new month texts, good night texts.
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He told our mutual friend. Call him Owen.
So Owen now said, since you are already dating Constance, pass me Abigail. I just want a friend I can talk to. A close female friend.
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Derik now took Owen to Constance’s house, there he introduced Abigail to Owen.
Owen made his intentions known to her. Told her he’s not looking for a relationship, at least not yet, he wants a friend and they might take it to the next level.
Abigail said NO!
Owen told her, not a relationship oo, but friendship, she still said NO!
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Later that night, Abigail sent series of text messages to Derik saying he’s pushing his friend on her when she’s there.
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One time, Derik invited Constance to his home and she went with her sister.
After that day, Abigail would always go to Derik’s house unannounced even without her sister knowing and without calling Derik to let him know she’s on her way.
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I didn’t know all this while.
When it got too much, Derik told me.
So I advised him as a sister and a friend to steer clear from her.
Whenever she comes, leave the house till she leaves on her own. I told him, don’t sleep with her ooo.
He said, she has been offering him sex.
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I told him, well, it’s nothing new. Just say no and if your penis won’t respect your NO, leave the house for her.
He said okay.
I added that, anything he does will cause enmity between the girls ooo.
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Okay!
One day, I was supposed to go chill with them but Derik cancelled it. Told me not to come again that he was expecting someone.
Aite.
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I later went that day and saw him with Abigail.
They had had sex and the Abigail was shining her 32 teeth like a roasted rabbit.
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Owen came inside and saw her. He knew what just happened but said nothing.
30minutes later, the room was filled with our hommies. Abigail left because she wasn’t comfortable.
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All our hommies knew who she was. They knew she’s the sister to Derik’s babe. We all asked and he laughed, said nothing.
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Minutes later, he got a call. From his girlfriend, Constance. When he picked, it was Abigail’s voice. Telling him she’s home now.
He dropped the call and told us.
I told him, well, before next week, kasala go burst.
He assured me there won’t be any kasala as the Abigail girl told him she has a boyfriend and she would want them(she and Derik) to remain as friends.
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You see, I told him.
It can’t happen.
Girls ain’t wired that way to be just friends with you after sex. They want more. More sex or a relationship.
Any girl that tells you she has a boyfriend after you 2 just had sex is lying. Don’t believe her.
He assured himself because it wasn’t me he was assuring that all will be well.
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It wasn’t too long, a week later, just as I predicted. Constance came home crying.
This is what happened,
Her elder sister, Abigail told her she had sex with Derik’
She told her she loves Derik.
And this is what pissed me off the most DERIK SAW HER FIRST.
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Constance ran to Derik and cried like the small girl that she is.
Derik couldn’t say a thing. Of course, he shouldn’t.
So she made up her mind to move on, leave him for her sister.
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Derik started begging and crying like the fool he is.
Lmaoooo!
Constance now said, her ex-boyfriend slept with 2 of her sisters. Abigail and their most elder sister.
Even her ex-boyfriend before the last.
Wow! What a family!!!
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Derik came to me, asking me to help him.
My advise was : LET HER GO!!!
He has caused enough damage.
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Now, who do I blame?
Derik!!!
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But because I want to be fair, let me chip in Abigail!!!
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When he told me they were sisters, I advised he let go. I knew something like this would happen.
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Now this is how guys are trouble.
When you meet a girl and she says no to you and you meet her friend. Pls don’t date her friend, it always ends with “He met me before you”
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Some guys always ask a girl who is their friend to introduce him to her best friend.
Most times, these guys don’t know that, that girl may have feelings for him.
It’s always painful match making another girl with your crush.
It ends with tears and “but you met me before her”
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Or when you meet 2 girls together. You talk to one and when you talk to the other, you like the other more and you ask her out. It doesn’t end well, it ends with “but you met me before her” then “what does she have that I don’t have”
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Never try to come between 2 friends, 2 girls or 2 sisters.
Guys are soooo much trouble.
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If you don’t know, it’s very painful. Painful that a guy meets you first, doesn’t consider you good enough and thinks your friend good enough.
E dey pain well well.
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2 guys will sleep with the same girl and still be friends.
But 2 girls can’t sleep with the same man and still remain friends.
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The “I met him first” OR “he met me first” shows its ugly head.
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Guys, warn yourself.
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