Don’t carry on with a man or woman who does not bring out the best in you. Don’t just desire someone who will simply accept all your flaws, take you as you are, and leave you that way. Desire someone who challenges you to be all that you can be, someone who challenges you to become a better version of yourself, someone who acknowledges your weak points but still wants to help turn those weaknesses to strengths. Relationships are meant to add value to you and enhance you, not leave you the same way. What are you learning from that potential spouse? How has he/she ignited positive changes in you? Most people prefer those who just make them happy and does everything they want. However, someone who helps you grow (spiritually, emotionally & mentally,financially etc), someone who sharpens you, is better for you in the long run!