Why Am I Called A Sex Addict Because I’m From Akwa Ibom?

I got talking to an old friend of mine the other day, and he was looking for ways to be posted to Akwaibom state for his Youth service.
The only reason he wanted Akwaibom is because, he has heard of how Akwaibom girls are good in bed.
He kept disturbing me to help him. I was wondering if I was the Federal Government to make it happen.
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One time, a group of ‪#‎agbayas‬ called me a ‪#‎Nymphomaniac‬ aka ‪#‎SexAddict‬ because my name is Nsikak Effiong and I’m from Akwaibom state. In their tiny little brain, I am a sex addict and sex lover because I’m from Akwaibom.
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So you see a light skinned girl like my friend Madonna, she has curly hair and does professional make up on her face.
She tells you she’s from Imo state and in your mind, you have concluded she’s a runs girl. I can’t even count the number of times Madonna has made posts ranting how people think she’s a runs girl.
Today, someone will just wake up on a hungry stomach, to say all girls from Imo state won’t make good wives.
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Days ago, in one of my posts, someone confidently said Yoruba ladies are allowed to cheat even after being married. He said a Yoruba woman can sleep with other men and even bring another man’s kids to her husband and the husband will accept.
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How about what’s said of Edo people?
There was a video I saw last year of a lady that released nude videos of these ladies she sponsored abroad for prostitution, failure to pay her complete money was releasing their nude videos as punishment.
I was at my indomie joint when a man said, “ah! Na Edo babes na, their own no dey pass that one’ all the prostitutes for Italy, na Edo girls dem be”
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Harry Song said “Enugu girls like to do” do what?
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Hasty Generalization. But that’s not what I want to talk about.
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Some guys and even females actually testify that Akwaibom girls are the best in bed. And how they cook best.
I don’t know this. I wouldn’t know.
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I know some parts in Akwaibom states that things are said of the people there.
I also know some local Governments in Abia state that bad things have been said of them. Talk about Anambra, I don hear. Imo, I hear? Osun? Ogun? Benin? Bayelsa, Kaduna? Kogi?
I don hear.
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Do you believe in God? Do you believe he created us?
If you don’t believe, it’s alright. We won’t discuss religion today.
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I just want to ask…
Is it that when God created us? Or when we appeared on earth through science that we all gathered together with the same attributes?
Let me explain.
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Since Akwaibomites are good in bed, does it mean they gave Akwaibomites special skills by saying “Be Good in Bed and be from Akwaibom”?
Do you understand?
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If we mention Igbo, money is attached. Yes, other tribes LOVE money, but from our perspective, even from Igbos themselves, they admit to loving money most.
Is it that they were gathered or created by saying ” love money and be Igbos”?
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Edo too? They say they are witches.
Is it that they appeared on earth and where told to be the greatest witches?
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Do you understand what I mean?
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There are bad cooks in Akwaibom, but because of the stereotyping, all from Akwaibom is said to be good.
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The keyword here is STEREOTYPE.
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Why must a person be judged based on where they come from?
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“See am, see that girl, na dog she be.
No be calabar chic?
Na calabar.
Calabar girls sabi fuck”
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“That one? Na Igbo na, she too like money”
no money no love”
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“If you see that one, you go know say na Yoruba girl”
see as she dirty,
see armpit.
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“See this one way do fraud, na here him come from”
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Why?
Why the stereotype?
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They said in a certain local govt of a state, the people there act a certain way.
Ok!
Where they injected with the same syringe that will make them act that way?
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Are you saying, all the people you have met from a certain state acted the same way?
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I always defend my childhood girlfriend, Dorisha when I hear of bad things said about her village.
I dey defend her to the last. I know she’s not what is said of that village.
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Our parents tell us not to marry a certain person because they are from a local govt.
Oh! That local govt ehn? They kill their spouse within 3 years and then rush to marry another person.
They say “don’t marry o, they always have mad people from that village”
“Ehn, they never stick to their husband. They love divorce”
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How?
How did we get to this stage?
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Why am I called a sex addict because I’m from Aks?
Or Somto is called irresponsible because she’s Igbo?.
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‪#‎WalksOutAndFlipsHair‬

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