A Man Meets A Girl A Virgin…

A man meets a girl a virgin. They get married. He pops the hymen. She gets pregnant. Gives birth. Has 3 kids.
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When the going gets tough, she asks to leave the marriage. Leaving the marriage also includes in ‪#‎Nigeria_setting‬, “returning the bride price”
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Ermmm, why is the bride price returned? What exactly are they returning?
Will he return back her virginity? Or restore the size of her vagina? And if the woman ain’t a virgin, will he return all the years he wasted?
Why are bride price returned even when the husband is a douchebag?
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And when bride price ain’t accepted by the man. It means the woman won’t be allowed to get married to another man until the bride price is accepted.
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Who created such a tradition or law or garbage?
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In the news, a woman says her husband started beating her 4DAYS after he paid her dowry. 4months into the marriage she wants a divorce. She has called the man to come take back the bride price he paid. But he has refused, bragging that, he will let her grow old in her father’s house.
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Why?
After all the nutrients he has taken from her body? Plus the stress he put her through? Then the bride price will still be returned?
Who did this rubbish?
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If children were involved and the bride price were returned, does it mean the children will be HERS alone and not the man’s?
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So if a couple have been married for 30years and they want a divorce. The bride price will still be returned?
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If that’s the case, I never want a bride price paid on my head. Make them carry their bride price go.
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‪#‎WalksOutAndFlipsHair‬

Nsikak Effiong

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