Last Year December, I Met A Guy….

Last year (December), I was expecting a friend from Kaduna. He landed in my state, so I was to go pick him at a place.
He had already taken a cab.
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While waiting for him, I decided to sit close to a phone repair shop because he was taking too long to come.
While sitting, this very cute guy came around.
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I didn’t notice him at first, but did when he said “Hello”.
I smiled at him and he offered a handshake. He asked of my name, I told him “Nsikak”
He said his name is also Nsikak.
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I told him, “yea right” that’s what guys say. So he brought out his ID card.
Guess what?
His name was Nsikak Effiong too, but his third name was different from mine.
I told him, hey, I’m Nsikak Effiong too. He didn’t believe. He said the same thing “That’s what all girls will say”
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I brought out my ID card too and he saw Nsikak Effiong and a different surname.
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The guy hugged me.
Hahahahaha.
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That’s how gist started. He started telling me he’s a photographer and a graphics guy. Told me how he just came down to the state (the state I am) for a job. He brought out his laptop, showed me the job, told me he was paid 800k and all that. I looked at it and yes, it was worth the amount. Good job. Then he went on to say, he earns more than his mates. Said he studied Engineering and went on to say how doing what you love is the best.
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He talked for 30minutes before he finally asked what I studied in school. Oh “Computer Science” he smiled and asked what I know.
I told him and he offered me a job. Said if I’m okay with it, I can fly back to Abuja with him, he will pay for my flight ticket.
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In my mind, I just dey (YIMUU ) as in, just like that? So I told him I can’t ooo. I don’t know him and I no wan lost for Abuja.
If he had given me time(days) to think, I probably would have made calls to 3 people I know in Abuja; Charles, Omoze and Uncle Akan to ask if I can stay with them or just ask them to help me see if his office address is authentic.
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Anyways sha, he said, shey you will still marry now that you have finished school. I said I will marry in 7years time.
This fine boy jaws dropped and spit spilled from his mouth.
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Lmao! Oh God!
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He said, why? So I told him the reasons. He now said he would love for me to meet his sister.
His sister just graduated and she’s already thinking marriage. She has started packing her bags in case a man comes for her hand in marriage.
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Then he said he wants to show me something but before he did.
He said he would love to ask me a question. But my answer will determine if he will show me. I gave him a go ahead.
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The question;
“How do you see this, ‘ you are friends with someone, then you 2 get very intimate and even have sex’ you ask the person for a relationship and the person says no, but later says yes but still keeps other relationships”
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I paused for a second and asked him to tell me what he thinks.
I did this because I wanted to know his reason before I say mine. To the guy, instead of telling me the answer, he just told me he’s the guy in question and even went ahead to tell me he has a girl he sleeps with regularly and when he asked her for a relationship, she said NO! And after weeks said YES but she will keeps other relationship. He now concluded she’s confused. So me sef now said she’s really confused. (Make him show me wetin he wan show me )
Because of that, he liked me more and said I am qualified.
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So he showed me chats they had. Lmao! Just like that oo. This guy doesn’t know me from Adam.
He even showed me pictures of the girl (she set) smile emoticon
Judging by the way he was going about it, I suspected they were having issues because he was hurt.
So he told me how the girl asked for money for her hair. He even showed me chats, and told me bitterly how he can never give a girl money for her hair. That he can give her money for other things but not hair.
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Me sef supported him. pacman emoticon I told him she’s not serious. He nodded.
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The guy showed me where she was begging him to get married to her. She said since they have been dating for 2months, and the sex is regular, it’s time he comes to meet her parents.
Huh?
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2months and already talking marriage.
The guy lamented how desperate she is. Even told me of the things he bought for her.
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Shit got real when he showed me nude pictures of this girl.
pacman emoticon she has a sexy body mehn.
Then he showed me her BBM Display Picture.
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Now this is what pissed him off…
She used one of the guy’s photos she was dating. Then she added ” I l heart emoticon ve you.” That was what pained this guy.
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Then he told me how he only loves her for her body and the sex. Said plenty things.
This time, I said nothing.
His eyes were redder. Fine boy that’s light skinned, his face changed color.
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I told him sorry.
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This guy is nice.
He’s one of the many handsome guys that are very emotional.
I saw him as a guy that rarely dates because girls may conclude he’s a cheat. And he battled low self esteem too.
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Yes! He’s capable of loving but people like this shouldn’t be trusted.
If he doesn’t love the girl, he won’t bother a stranger with their long love stories even to the extent of showing a stranger their chats.
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He was hurt and he showed her nude pictures. He’s capable of revealing nudes after a break up. And from what I see, if that girl comes back to say “I’m sorry” he will take her back.
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My friend I was waiting for came..
In 5minutes, I told him things which I won’t want to share.
Lmao! He hugged me tight and I left. We never got to exchange phone numbers.
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Reason for sharing is in 3 phases
1. There are actually girls who think of marriage immediately after school. Why? Is there not more to life than marriage?
This is sad because it happens every day. Girls go to school, after graduation, marriage is their top priority. This ain’t same for guys.
That’s why sometimes I wish I were a boy. At least, I’d have a different view to life . I love being a female, don’t get it twisted tongue emoticon
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2. How can you date someone for 2months and you are thinking marriage? How? Can’t we just date, be happy in a relationship and not think marriage?
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3. You’d be surprised how many people confide in strangers they will never meet again.
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Oh well…
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