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I’m 23years YOUNG And I’m So NOT Ready For Marriage…

When I stop revealing my age maybe that’s when I’d be ready for marriage. You know what they say about females hiding their true age.
I’m still young. I am not mature enough for marriage.
I know this because I know myself.
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I am not ready to force myself to be loved by the family I’m getting married to.
I am not ready to do things that I never used to do so as to be accepted and seen as a good wife.
I am not ready to buy gift items to family members so they can like me.
Or smile when I’m not in the mood.
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I don’t like going to social gatherings, especially gatherings of family members.
I am not ready to pretend that my marriage is so damn perfect, or pretend to have the best husband in the world when it’s the opposite.
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I am not ready for marriage.
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I don’t see myself getting married in 2-5years. The idea of marriage will finally settle in my head when I’m 30years old, so I have like 7years to decide what I want.
Like my goals, dream job and futuristic purpose for my life.
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I think marriage will finally settle in when I can’t walk out of the marriage at any slightest provocation.
I will be ready when I’d learn how to forgive wholeheartedly.
I don’t have a problem with saying “I’m sorry” my problem is not accepting the “I’m sorry” from someone else so in 7years time, I hope to be able to accept the “I’m sorry”
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I will be ready for marriage when I understand that I can get cheated on, and instead of crying my eyes out and storming out of the marriage, I can as well cheat back and we can continue the marriage, 1-1. E no dey pain.
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I want to club before getting married.
I want to smoke weed, shisha..
I want to get so high on alcohol.
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According to Canice Dim, he says a female is not ready for marriage(a good wife material) if she hasn’t dated up to 10 guys.
So permit me to say, until I date 8 more men in 7years I won’t get married because I ain’t ready.
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Until I get over depression, I won’t get married.
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I need to learn how to love people for who they are and not by their looks(our handsome and beautiful) I have to learn to look beyond the physical.
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I want to get over my phobia for marriage. Everyday on social media, is one story of domestic violence on a spouse. Acid flying around like ice cream.
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People change! I understand I may not love my spouse every time, which is totally cool.
I already know marriage and life is not a fairy tale but I need to work more on it.
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I will be ready for marriage when I won’t awwww when I see a cute naked man, but hey!!! It’s not bad to admire a cute naked man smile emoticon
I will be ready for marriage when I won’t bring down the roof when my husband admires a naked lady.
A case of, (what’s good for the goose is good for the gander) smile emoticon
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Countdown to 7years…
Marriage will come if I’m ready..
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I will be ready when I’m ready.
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‪#‎cheers‬

Written by Nsikak Effiong, a contributor of Abel Abel. You can follow Nsikak on facebok, click here

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