Briefly touch (not attack) the lips, gentle, brief, as you begin, before you start longer kisses. Closing eyes at this point allows you to focus on the sensations of your lips meeting; remember, gentle and simple, lips to lips. Don’t be in a hurry! Most men experience a rush of adrenaline that makes them want to accelerate towards sex. Women, on the other hand, need a much longer time to prepare for sex than men.
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