Before you sleep with her….

Man and woman embracing on bed

You finally got her! Now she is in your bed. You help her remove her cloth! You have removed your cloth too. See her curves. Wow… you are so hard, and she is horny too. You want to put that thing into her.

But before you put it in… think about these 10 things;

1. Do you really love her? I know you like her buttocks… I know she has big breasts or you just enjoy rubbing those breasts… I know you like the way she talks. But do you really love the person she is?

2 After sleeping with her, what next? Will you still love that breasts? Will you still love her smile?

3 What if she gets pregnant? Will she face the world alone or will you stand by her? Are you ready to stand as a man and say yes! I am responsible? We both did it, it is my Baby! Or will you look for excuses?

4 If she calls to tell you she is pregnant, will you tell her to abort it and risk her life or will you tell her to keep the baby?

5 Very important, if she gives birth, can you take care of the baby? Can you meet the emotional, mental, psychological and financial demands?

6 Is she someone you can marry or someone you just want to sleep with? Imagine if this was your sister with someone else

7 If she is good enough for you to want to sleep with, why can’t she be good enough to be your wife?

8 Why can’t you marry her as your wife and then enjoy all that is there to enjoy?

9 If you sleep with her and leave her. Think about how sad it will be… Think about the pains and the sorrows. Imagine if this is done to your child!

10 Think about tomorrow. Don’t just think about today I know you just want to do it! your hormones are up. What happens when the hormones are down?

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Wish all men thought about it before doing it there would be less single mothers and less heartaches.


Enter your comment here…@Faith, women too have to think,the thinking is not for the guys alone

Obedi Bwambale
Obedi Bwambale

Ladies s should also think for themselves. Why open your legs wide without any rationality.

Shiktira Adamu
Shiktira Adamu

Really food for thought to both sex am blessed I really need to bless someone too….


most men do not think twice before entering into it


Before having sex with any married Laddies make sure you’ve already married to him, sex is not only way to show that you love a man. Once he enjoy it he’s through with you

Jacob ochi

Good words for both genders

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